The Eight C’s

The president of my stake came to our Relief Society several months ago, and he gave us the following lesson.  I don't know where he got it from but I find it inspiring.

The four C's that can destroy unity in a group are:
Comparing
Competing
Complaining
Criticizing

The four C's can be combated with four other C's:
Combine
Cooperate
Commit to sustain
Complement

He wrote this on the chalkboard, which I found was a good way to remember this idea:

When we ...	We could instead ...
Compare	Combine
Compete	Cooperate
Complain	Commit to sustain
Criticize	Complement